Sally
Spare some change?
Spare some change?
in her child like voice
unkempt and unwashed
so many layers of clothing
socks over socks over stockings
soleless boots, tattered and unlaced
shuffles hurried city sidewalks
she collects scraps of paper
to fill her shopping cart
to fill her silent refuge
Spare some change?
Spare some change?
trade for a small meal
to silence her hunger
maybe her only meal
maybe her last meal
Hey buddy, can you spare some change?
This is a phrase heard in every big city, in every country and in every
language. It is a quest for currency to exchange for something that will stifle
hunger or shift a mood. It is a plea for change to effect change.
With countless people begging for change, why does it conjure fear in
so many? Does it really take emotional, economic or social desperation to
appreciate change? In our comfortable world why is change still unwelcome,
still unexpected?
No person exists in isolation. We may be the centre of our own universe
but we are never the centre of another’s universe. We can control nothing but
ourselves. We exist in a dynamic culture. People are born. People grow. People
move. People die. There are always new trends, new gimmicks, new technologies
and new ways. A door leading to a new future usually closes on a familiar past. We risk becoming a stranger to the world
around us when we are tempted to resist change. Resistance is futile. There has
never been a choice to stay as we are.
Communities grow and new opportunities come to life and flourish. Where
once there was a field or a mountain view there is now habitation and commerce.
Institutions adapt, build new, welcome
new and nurture new. Without growth,
communities age and eventually another ghost town fades into the dust.
We announce change with celebrations of new life. We have parties for a
new home. We promise change with New Year’s Resolutions. We celebrate
transitions, accomplishments and independence. Change comes disguised as
growth: a newborn lies motionless, eventually turns over, then crawls, achieves
an unsteady walk, then runs and finally turns to wave goodbye.
Some say change is the new constant. It is the only constant. Birth,
death and the rising sun are all harbingers of change. Without something new any system starts to
decay. Change renews life. Life is change.
Hey buddy, can you spare some change?
Being Prepared, How to Shift Change to Opportunity
To provide respite until the predator moves on a turtle pulls back into
its shell, a possum plays dead and an armadillo rolls into an armoured sphere. Fear
drives responses to transitory changes. They are productive only when the
danger is real and the predator can be deceived. They are a comical over-reaction for
false alarms and terminal when the predator is more cunning.
How many of
our responses to change are still based on fear?
How much of life is spent on
wagon-circle practice drills?
We assume humans differ from the rest of the animal kingdom because of a consciousness that takes us beyond instinct: abilities to rationalize, to
communicate, to create, to record history, to engage in abstract thinking and to develop complex relationships. Even with scheduled changes such as the first day
of school, moving from one grade to the next, moving onto university or
becoming independent, fear responses can creep in.
Change is like the weather - some ancient otherworld force makes it
happen. What we do when we feel the effects of change is often mistaken for change.
It is really just our particular response. Planting a new crop, moving to take
a new job, building new infrastructure are all intended to take advantage of
changing situations, to somehow make the future brighter or more certain. The drive-ins of the 1950’s and 1960’s were
redeveloped in the 1970’s and 1980’s. Golf courses and the suburban shopping mall are now in
this queue. The redevelopments are not the cause of the changing urban environment. They are a consequence of the social
and economic realities of the day.
Preparing for the inevitable helps develop resilience and supports us
through the unforeseen. Resilience is still an instinctual response but being
prepared is that part of humanity that allows us to optimize life. Where some
see adversity, others see opportunity. Where some see good luck others see a
leveraged opportunity. The difference is expectation and anticipation.